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Indicators Of Marriage Trouble

Posted By: Peter Bellyache | Posted On: 2009-06-27 | Article ID: 211508

One of the toughest things in life is to have and keep a good marriage. Just take a look at the latest percentages on divorce in the United States. Even with such statistics, the marriage is still the cornerstone that holds up the culture. So why do marriages go bad? To understand why, you need to find the sources of marriage trouble before they can do any damage. If you want to know more, you should take a look at some of the following warning signs.

One of the first indicators of marriage trouble is that there is little to no intimacy between you and your spouse. Now, this involves more than physical or sexual intimacy. It means the companionable type of intimacy that urges you to do those special little things for your husband or wife that show them you love them and appreciate them. It could be making the morning coffee or just saying that you love them. It could be how affectionate you are towards them. If do not have intimacy, your marriage could be in danger.
Coming right behind a lack of intimacy, is a lack of respect for one another. Healthy respect is a necessary part of any marriage. Without it, you are missing a vital source of happiness.
Without intimacy or respect, you may begin feeling that spending time with your spouse is an ordeal or at the very least, uncomfortable. Oppressive feelings may undermine your time together or you might feel suffocated. This sign indicates that your marriage trouble is deepening.
Arguments are a normal part of any relationship. Should this pattern of fighting stop, then there is chance one or the other spouse have stopped caring about the relationship. It is very likely a legitimate assumption. The fights that happened prior to finding a compromise or some solution have come to an end.
When you reach the point when you have stopped talking to your spouse all together, then you've approached a critical point in your marriage trouble. This is because communication is the essence of your marriage. Once the talking stops, your marriage is probably over for most intents and purposes. There can be no doubts now. When you cannot even talk to your spouse about your feelings, you may start assuming things. You start imagining things. It is not uncommon for feelings of frustration, resentment, and anger to overwhelm you.
The most obvious sign of marriage trouble is romantic or sexual interaction with someone other than your spouse. The other warning signs have laid the groundwork for this one. When someone cheats on their spouse, they may do so because they've been ignored, disrespected, and unappreciated by the other. The cheating spouse is often desperate to find the intimacy, respect, companionship, and communication that their spouse has denied them. Naturally, the level of extramarital involvement may different with each individual, but the idea is clear.
What this means is that you must be mindful to prevent these warning signs in your marriage and try to develop a strong relationship with your spouse. That is the only way to avoid trouble in your marriage.

 

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Peter Bellyache
I have found it rewarding to write about marriage trouble because you may find your own answers. The challenges of marriage can be better approached with the right information.





 


 
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