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How To Kiss On first Date

Posted By: Ryan Christopher | Posted On: 2009-06-29 | Article ID: 212004

Most men are unsure, how to initiate the first kiss.Find out if the girl is ready to be kissed by you before you go for that first kiss.

There are few tests you can use to find out if she is ready to establish a romantic and sexual relationship with you. Use the following as tests to find out is she is ready to be kissed:

1. Gently stroke the hair of this girl and see how she responds.

2. Hold her hands and gently squeeze them.

3. Brush her arm.

Pay close attention. If she ends up responding positively to two of the three moves, it is a good sign and you can go for the kiss. She does not have to return the favor or participate to show compliance. As long as she does not raise an objection, walk away or discourage touching her, you can safely conclude she is ready to be kissed.

Once you have determined that the girl is ready to kiss you, slowly take a step toward her or pull her to you. Then lean forward and kiss her lips. It is always better to give her a quick peck first then go for a longer kiss.

You can always pull back before you go for the next/long kiss but I advice not to. It is better to stay in the kiss position and plant another kiss right away. You can always look into her eyes, or hold her hands or hold her on the waist before going for the next kiss, the longer kiss.

Once in a while the girl may be surprised that you kissed her or tried to kiss her. As a result it is also possible that she may pull back when you try to kiss her. This does not necessarily mean that she does not want to get romantically involved with you. Neither does it mean that she does not want to be kissed by you.

She might have pulled back because she was not expecting a kiss at that moment. May be you did not give her enough indicators to expect a kiss at that moment.

If you do the above three tests it will reduce the chances of a girl not knowing your intentions.

If the girl pulls back but does not protest or vocalize her objection to your kiss then it is a good sign. If she does not walk away and continue to participate in the conversation then you can assume she was not ready for the kiss earlier.

Test her comfort again by running the above three tests again.

Is she does not object to any of your touches you can go in for the kiss again and it will happen this time.

Here are few extra tips:

- Make sure to use some breath fresheners or mint before you kiss the girl.

- Don’t start professing your love to the girl right after you kiss her. It is too early in the game.

- It is always a good idea to shave before the kiss else you will scratch her face.

- Kiss her in private when you kiss the first time.

- Don’t fight, convince or put pressure on the girl if she is not comfortable kissing. It might happen later if you do not appear needy or clingy. It is ok if she does not want to kiss right now.

- Make your first kiss more romantic by playing with her hair or holding her face when you kiss her. You could also hold her on the waist or hold her hands when kissing. Whispering in the girl’s ear between kisses does magic for women.

- It is too obvious and boring to kiss at the end of the night. Be spontaneous by kissing her early in the night.

- Act normal after you kiss her. Make sure not to make things awkward or go into silence so continue talking.

 

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Ryan Christopher
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